Welcome to the "2 Boys and a Dad" blog. I have started this blog to record my journey through fatherhood and share my stories and limited experience and advice with the world. Who am I kidding. I am just a simple dad with a desire to share my experiences with anyone who will listen.
I became a dad for the first time on September 11, 2007. What I remember most about the day was the food. Food! Yes, the food. We arrived at the hospital a little before 6:00AM. Unfortunately my wife was not permitted to eat since she was in labor. I on the other hand was free to devour any food I could find. I enjoyed three delicious meals and several snacks all the while offering my wife some tasty ice chips. I still remember the burger I had for dinner. YUMMY!
All kidding aside, the day was filled excitement followed by anxiety and nervousness. We sat, held hands, talked about our future watched some 9/11 memorials on t.v. When the time came we were both ready and I was as supportive as a husband could be. I said the stupid things like, "It's O.K" as she was screaming in pain. I felt silly telling her to push as she was red faced and pushing and I was trying not to scream as she was clenching my hand nails almost piercing my skin. I felt a bit helpless. When it was over we were the proud parents of a 7 lbs 14 oz baby boy.
It always amazes me that I went from a husband to a father in a matter of seconds. My world and focus changed from Me to Him.
